We can't say enough about what a truly excellent counselor Barbara is - if I tried, I'd just never stop writing, she's really ALL that! She's the best combination to find in a counselor - professional, intelligent, well-educated, AND warm, caring, open-minded: PERFECT. And, I grew up in Los Angeles, where if you weren't in therapy, you were odd. So I *know* very well how to screen and interview a potential therapist to hire. She saved our marriage (25 years together now), and my sanity. No lie.